5 Signs He is NOT the One

Ahhhhh.... The sweet smell of summer, and love is in the air... Or not. Finding that special someone can be such a hassle. With all the distractions of our everyday lives, it can be a very difficult task to separate the men from the boys. One of the worst things we do as women is settle for less than what we deserve, and there are plenty of red flags that you just may not have caught yet. But do not fear, The Urban Twist is here to give you a few tips on cutting those loose ends, and finding the right guy. Here are 5 ways to tell your guy just simply is not the one. Click Here to Start the Story » 1 He always seems to be too "busy" If Barack Obama can make time for First Lady Michelle Obama, then your guy definitely should be able to set some time aside for you. Granted, your lover has a job, goes to school etc. but, the relationship that you've built thus far HAS to be a priority of his. If you spend majority of your time alone, or with your girls, it is time to prioritize. Take a moment to see if he's actually a busy bee, or he is just using that as an excuse. 2 Your guy cant stay off his phone when he's with you. Cell phones and laptops are a necessity in this era, and being without it can be a tad bit difficult. But, If your man always has his phone(or computer) in hand and cant spend 10 minutes without taking a look at it, then that's an issue. Let your man know that when the two of you are spending quality time together, he needs to take a break from the cyber world. 3 You’ve been ”talking” for months, but there is still no real commitment. If you have been doing his laundry, making him breakfast, and taking on the tasks of a girlfriend, there should be some type of commitment involved. Guys will treat you how you allow them to, and if you have been dating him for a while, but he never takes that next step of a commitment, it is time for you to move on. Show him that you are not at his disposal! If he acts single when you are not around, do NOT willingly allow it. If you are not down with the “friends with benefits” role, simply don’t play it. 4 He doesn’t like that you’re good with the family. When a guy really wants to be with you, he will make sure his family loves you. If he doesn’t want you involved with his family, that’s a red flag. There should be no reason that he gets mad you helped out his mom grocery shop, or attended his little sister’s graduation. If he wants a true future with you, he will accept that his family wants you around. In fact, that should make him want you even more. 5 You just can’t seem to fully trust him. As we all know, trust is KEY in a relationship. Without trust, a relationship is destined for failure. Multiple incidents of lying, cheating, or him just being a plain ol douche should be enough to show you he’s not worthy of you. Yes, we all do make mistakes, and there is (sadly) no such thing as the perfect man. But, there is a such thing as a guy who deserves you. If your boo acts like a complete player in public, you just should not trust him. Make that man work for your affection!

Ending a relationship is difficult. No one wants to admit that they wasted their time, and that their Mr. Right completely turned out to be Mr. Wrong. But, the bittersweet feeling of freedom will arise after you relieve yourself from that unworthy guy. There are PLENTY of people that are willing to get to know the real you and not play games. You just have to take that first step and be strong! Like Beyoncé said, If he liked it, he would have put a ring on it!

5 Signs He is NOT the One

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