Oh, passionate and seductive cougars with their relentless hunger for sexual adventures. Many men believe that women become more interested in wild sex after getting married or stepping over a specific age threshold. Studies show that it is quite true. The vast majority of older women have weirder sexual fantasies and their libido just keeps going up with age.
MILFs are desired by many younger men who would like to meet someone experienced as well as mature men who understand that many women age like fine wines. The problem is that many do not know how to start.
The first thing is to use the best MILF dating site and start searching for a suitable person. The second is to know how to communicate with mature women. Let’s talk about the latter.
Luring in a Cougar
Obviously, MILF dating sites are created for both women and men. The former usually seek for younger men who are referred to as “cubs” while the latter tries to find a woman that would either provide an experience or (very often) financial support. This is a scheme that all parties understand and fully support.
If you have found a nice MILF, you need to start a conversation and establish mutually beneficial relationships. There are several nuances that you must understand:
- Do not be selfish. For some reason, many younger men believe that they must be searching for a woman to “milk” for money or just “use”. First of all, many mature women will not only quickly see you through, but use you instead and leave you with a broken heart. Be honest and search for women that are actually into you.
- Don’t try to be polite. While you still need to be a gentleman, no woman likes a man who behaves like a shy teenager. Be brave and talk dirty. Try to impress them with your attitude. However, never cross the line and stay respectful.
- Show off your goods. It is important to have a good profile page with lots of photos and interesting bio. While the metaphor may sound a bit weird, cougars do fall for a good bait. Do not try to lie in your profile, but highlight your merits.
- Be proactive. A MILF is a person that knows its price. She would not desperately seek attention. She will be active, but won’t pursue people she likes. You must be the active one and try to attract attention from women you liked!
What to Expect?
It is no secret that many cougars are looking for cubs, young inexperienced men who can act as their proteges and sex toys to some degree. For these women, paying for sex is often a way to show appreciation. This is why so many young men are trying to find a sponsor, an experienced cougar looking for a boy.
While you may not be into such relationships, any MILF wants not only to find a partner for sexual games, but a person to care for. Many MILFs want to become sponsors for their cubs and surround them with care and attention. While you should not be seeking a MILF who will pay for you, you should never deny their efforts to provide you with financial support.