If Barack Obama can make time for First Lady Michelle Obama, then your guy definitely should be able to set some time aside for you. Granted, your lover has a job, goes to school etc. but, the relationship that you’ve built thus far HAS to be a priority of his. If you spend majority of your time alone, or with your girls, it is time to prioritize. Take a moment to see if he’s actually a busy bee, or he is just using that as an excuse.